tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8008578250555065496.post8765722843261584999..comments2023-03-21T10:34:31.089-05:00Comments on A Cacophony of Crows: Figuring out how to escapeKathyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01277981757643955577noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8008578250555065496.post-74485742743916860882010-11-29T20:16:49.206-06:002010-11-29T20:16:49.206-06:00Yeah, I've got fibromyalgia but I also have ye...Yeah, I've got fibromyalgia but I also have years of being told I was lazy by my ex-husband. Not to mention other relatives telling me I need to just work through it and just get out there and do it. It's hard not to think of myself as lazy when I lay around all day or when I just can't seem to move. Those nice little indoctrinations take their toll on my brain.<br /><br />I'm fortunate that my present husband seems to understand my situation but I still project it onto him, that he, like the others, just think I'm lazy.<br /><br />I am trying to stop beating myself up though.Kathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01277981757643955577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8008578250555065496.post-21169305700003341452010-11-29T19:51:56.989-06:002010-11-29T19:51:56.989-06:00Don't you have fibromyalgia? Chronic fatigue i...Don't you have fibromyalgia? Chronic fatigue is part of that, isn't it? I once heard fibromyalgia defined as chronic fatigue syndrome plus pain. If that's the case, then why beat yourself up? It's not laziness.Debra She Who Seekshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01845703092794695023noreply@blogger.com